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Creating a Positive Difference in Your Life and the Life of Others

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Introduction, Understanding, and Application Series

By Dr. Bob Ruotolo

New Series Introduction

This new series is subtitled ‘Introduction, Understanding, and Application’ because that is exactly what it does:

  • Introduction- introduces you to new concepts and tools;
  • Understanding- it explains how these concepts and tools can positively affect your life and the life of others you choose to interact with and share your knowledge and experiences.
  • Application- this is where it all comes together, learning and practicing how to make it happen. Applying what you know to make your life better and the life of others around you!

Here is the first in our series.

Four Power Tools

What if in less than 500 words I can give you a gift that can change your life forever, would you read on?

Here it is: Four Power Tools. You already have these tools in your possession and you use them every day. The CHALLENGE is changing these ordinary tools into extraordinary tools! Sounds like a play on words? Yes, it is and it works. What are each of these tools? They are: thoughts, attitudes, words, and actions.

You already possess and use every one of these tools every day. You can change them from ordinary to extraordinary just by the CHOICES you make when using each tool. JUST FOLLOW AND RESPONSD TO THE ENERGY THAT IS GIVEN OFF FROM EACH TOOL AS YOU USE IT. Yes, you can just FEEL the difference and respond, focusing on the energy field being given off in the moment, POSITIVE energy or NEGATIVE energy. If it is not positive, stop! Let go, clear, reframe, re-engage.

Before you stop reading, we are less than 200 words, read on and allow me to elaborate. Much of how we respond to the world around us including how we respond to ourselves is through our Mental Conditioning (habits of thought) and the belief system we have acquired over time (attitudes). These thoughts and attitudes are reflected in how we speak to and about ourselves and others (words), and our behaviors (Actions).

Follow the energy! Negative thoughts, attitudes, and words foster negative actions. Positive thoughts, attitudes, words foster positive actions. This is all about, first, awareness; second, conscious choice (respond not react) to the energy you are feeling about the consequences of your anticipated actions- move forward if positive, stop if negative.

Practice, Practice, Practice!

Before you are in a situation where you have to respond quickly, treat every situation as an opportunity to gain mastery over managing your actions by ‘tuning in’ to your thoughts, attitudes, and words. Stop to listen to your ‘thoughts’ and ‘words’’, FEEL the energy generated by them, and respond accordingly. Is it ‘positive’ or ‘negative’? Sometimes we refer to this as your ‘gut’ reaction. You have heard the saying, “Go with your gut”. Now ask “why do I feel this way?” This exercise above demonstrates how to use reflection, contemplation, action.

Our next session will focus on a tool called RE-FRAMING, a mental process that compliments and supports taking positive actions.


Beyond Leadership to Transformation Series: The New Leadership Spirit

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“The only thing that is constant is change.”

Breaking Down the Barriers to Personal and Organizational Success!

Turbulent, rapidly-changing times dominate today’s workplace.  Around the globe, unstable workforces can be contributed to many factors- mergers, acquisitions, changes in technology, and changes in how we do business.  Large multi-nationals continually survey production capabilities and move manufacturing from one location to another.  Outsourcing of support services from a business’s core competencies is becoming a common practice.  Strategic partnerships and alliances, expanding dominance through vertical supply chains and servicing vertical markets are now in vogue.

Yes, the world of work is different, and therefore our response to it must be different.  No longer does one enter the work force at an early age and chart his/her course based on one’s entrance education, training, and desired future.  Continuous learning is a requirement for employability.  Self-management and self-sufficiency are concepts that apply equally to individuals in the work place, a work unit’s performance, and at the organizational level of an enterprise.  The need and ability to be responsive, adaptable, and resilient are called for in the realm of being competitive and successful in today’s business world.

How do we prepare our children, students, associates, and ourselves for such a work environment?  Is there a set of behaviors and attitudes that can be looked for and, better yet, developed in people who want to compete and succeed?  Can parents, employers, teachers and youth leaders create an environment and culture that attracts, grows, and nurtures such behaviors and attitudes?

The answer to all these questions is a resounding YES!  Not only can leaders create and sustain such a learning environment, we must prepare our youth to be successful to have long-term viability and success in today’s work world.   This series addresses a way to achieve this end both conceptually and practically with models, practices, and tools.

What qualities and characteristics should be developed in individuals in the workplace and in our school environments?  What I am about to describe I refer to as the New Leadership Spirit.  The words leader and spirit are very important!  The word leader connotes self-direction and ownership, as well as the ability to be focused on health and wealth creation. That is to be able to stand back and view the wholeness of one’s decisions and its potential impact before taking action.  It also means to include others that are needed to affect the needed change or who may be impacted by whatever changes will take place. The word spirit means purposeful, passionate, as well as transforming and connected.  These are powerful words!

What are the added dimensions that make this concept NEW?  The newness refers to the need to partner with others and to work in harmony with others. This means not being the lone star putting him or her up against the world! The last characteristic is to be principled-centered.  That is, that you are clear on the few principles that govern your behavior and that you can communicate these principles and have them supported by others.  These are the qualities of a Change Master or a Master Teacher.

Over the past twenty-five years I have worked in the field of behavioral science as a practitioner of performance improvement of individuals, teams, and whole organizations.  The above description of the new leader has been distilled from this experience, especially over the past decade working with Fortune 100 companies like Honeywell and Exxon, as well as medium and small organizations both public and private.  These concepts and models hold true in each of these environments.


A Quote of Day from Dr. Bob

Come join us for a free webinar that will feature success expert, Dr. Bob Ruotolo

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He will share easy to understand concepts that will put you on track, once and for all, to the true path to happiness and success in all aspects of your life, whether it is personal, career, or relationships.

Attend promptly this coming Thursday May 26th at 11:00 am Arizona time – which is 2:00 pm EST.

You will be amazed at how focused you really can be to learn and implement methods that have proven to work for literally hundreds of people that Dr. Bob has worked with.

Don’t miss out on this event by registering below!

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Living a Happier and Healthier Life!

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This WELLNESS and HAPPINESS program is called ‘MC- 365.’  The program is designed to deliver “Motivation for Wellness and Happiness for Everyone, Everyday.”

Research studies indicate that the #1 motivator for an individual is APPRECIATION.  MC-365 is the best gift that you can give to yourself and to share with others to recognize the special person you are, and to show appreciation to others for their loyalty, dedication, commitment and friendship.

Also, a major emphasis in America today is “Wellness.”  Research says that having better health, attitude, relationships, low stress level, manageable weight, etc. helps people perform better and enjoy their entire lives better. MC-365 provides the tools to enhance your life in all those critical areas- emotional, physical, professional, spiritual and financial. No one does it better!

Learn more about MC-365: CLICK HERE